It’s easy to focus on things you don’t have … or to be critical of the things that you do have. But by changing your thinking, you can actually become content with your home.
Not everyone lives in the home of their dreams.
In fact, I’m willing to bet that most people don’t. (That’s why they’re called dream houses and not reality houses.)
If you’re feeling stuck with a home that’s less than your ideal, it’s hard to feel content.
Maybe it doesn’t seem like there are enough bathrooms. Or bedrooms. Or your kitchen could stand to be larger … or updated.
The list could go on and on. Maybe it feels like your house is too small … or too large. Maybe it’s so old and needs more updating than you can afford. Maybe you feel trapped in a soul-sucking space instead of flourishing in a haven.
Whatever the issues you may have, it can become easy to focus on them and dwell on what you wish you could change.
A challenge for you
I have a challenge for you. When you’re tempted to think about what’s wrong with your house, think about what’s right.
You may not feel like you have a haven. But when you’re ready to dwell on what you don’t like, think about what you do like.
For right now, you don’t have to do anything else. But replace your negative thinking with positive thoughts – even if it’s being thankful for a roof over your head or running water or the luxury of a washer and dryer.
In my own home
Sometimes, it takes me a while to look for the good in my annoying places.
- I think about how it’s difficult to jockey four people around one bathroom – until I remember how my grandparents raised seven children sharing 1½ bathrooms.
- When I look at the vintage purple tile and bathroom sink in my own bathroom and wish we could spring for a remodel right now, I try to be thankful for indoor plumbing – because it’s a luxury many people in this world still don’t have.
- A few years ago, I was very disappointed in our dated kitchen. I wasn’t crazy about the storage space, the 50-year-old countertops, and the basic layout. Then I saw a picture of a woman cooking in a Third World kitchen. When I saw the dirt floors, crude cooking space, and couple pots and pans stacked and stored in the middle of everything, I stopped complaining. Right away.
Now, whenever I’m tempted to complain, I visualize that kitchen – and now I’m thankful for my own.
Contentment without pride
You don’t need to think of your home as better than other homes to puff yourself up with pride. But it is possible to become content with your home by remembering to be thankful for what you do have.
Thank the Lord for the way He has blessed you and where He has placed you in life. Ask Him for a heart of gratitude and contentment, trust Him for it … and start living each day searching for things to appreciate.
How have you helped yourself become content with your home?
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