Live with peace and purpose.

Welcome!
I’m Hilary Bernstein, and I love encouraging women to live a life of peace and purpose … and to forget about perfection.
As an author of more than a dozen books and a women’s ministry director, my passion is helping Christian women thrive even in the middle of the challenges of everyday life. As you navigate this changing, uncertain world, I am absolutely certain that Christ can bring you the peace you’re looking for. And when you follow Him, He’ll fill your life with purpose.
I believe every Christian woman can experience a life of peace and purpose. (Even if you, like me, are prone to perfectionism.)
As that happens, we’ll change our own corners of the world … for the better. Join my online community and I’ll e-mail you encouragement, tips, and resources to help you live with peace and purpose.
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What Readers Are Saying
“I am so thankful for your wisdom and your generosity to share it! I am a struggling mom who needed and needs someone like you in my life. So grateful for you and your blog.”
– Leticia
“Hilary, thank you so much. I needed this reminder to keep my eyes on God. Such encouragement you are to so many women.”
– Jill
“I just wanted to tell you that I totally feel like the Lord put you in my path for a reason. Everything I’m struggling with has been in your blog. It’s amazing, to be quite honest!! He’s using your words to remind me to seek Him. Thank you for your words, Hilary!”
– Jessica
“You’ve been a true blessing! Your insights have been invaluable and I’m eternally grateful.”
– Katrina
Latest Blog Posts
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When You Have No Idea What You’re Doing
As we face uncertainties, we can rest in the fact that the Lord goes before us. He will walk with those who trust in Him whether we feel like we have a clue … or we have no idea what we’re doing.
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Make Christmas Feel Like Christmas Again
By reliving some of your favorite aspects of Christmases past, making time to have fun, intentionally leaving yourself some breathing room, enjoying Christmas lights and music, and turning your focus to Christ, you can make Christmas feel like Christmas again.
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20 Amazing Gift Ideas for the Haven Creators in Your Life
Wondering what to buy other home loving friends? You’ll love these 20 amazing gift ideas for haven creators! As you’re creating a haven this year, it’s a great opportunity to help others create havens, too. You can do this by sharing recipes, decorating ideas ……
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How to Create a Christ-Centered Christmas
This year, avoid a hectic holiday season and intentionally choose to create a Christ-centered Christmas. The Advent season is finally here! But have you felt the pull away from a focus on Christ? I’ve noticed it, from the wrapping paper in stores in October, to…
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How to Create a Haven This Christmas … And Why You Should
Create a haven this Christmas as a gift for yourself … and your loved ones. Right now, you might be hearing “We need a little Christmas” on the radio ten times a day. But what you really need is a haven to escape from Christmas…
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8 Merry Meals to Make for a Christmas Party
Hosting company this Christmas? Don’t worry about what food to serve. Use these 8 different meal ideas to make for guests at Christmas! Bringing people together at Christmas is so fun. It’s a great time of year to step back from everyday routines and celebrate…

