Live with peace and purpose.

Welcome!
I’m Hilary Bernstein, and I love encouraging women to live a life of peace and purpose … and to forget about perfection.
As an author of more than a dozen books and a women’s ministry director, my passion is helping Christian women thrive even in the middle of the challenges of everyday life. As you navigate this changing, uncertain world, I am absolutely certain that Christ can bring you the peace you’re looking for. And when you follow Him, He’ll fill your life with purpose.
I believe every Christian woman can experience a life of peace and purpose. (Even if you, like me, are prone to perfectionism.)
As that happens, we’ll change our own corners of the world … for the better. Join my online community and I’ll e-mail you encouragement, tips, and resources to help you live with peace and purpose.
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What Readers Are Saying
“I am so thankful for your wisdom and your generosity to share it! I am a struggling mom who needed and needs someone like you in my life. So grateful for you and your blog.”
– Leticia
“Hilary, thank you so much. I needed this reminder to keep my eyes on God. Such encouragement you are to so many women.”
– Jill
“I just wanted to tell you that I totally feel like the Lord put you in my path for a reason. Everything I’m struggling with has been in your blog. It’s amazing, to be quite honest!! He’s using your words to remind me to seek Him. Thank you for your words, Hilary!”
– Jessica
“You’ve been a true blessing! Your insights have been invaluable and I’m eternally grateful.”
– Katrina
Latest Blog Posts
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20 Amazing Gift Ideas for the Haven Creators in Your Life
Wondering what to buy other home loving friends? You’ll love these 20 amazing gift ideas for haven creators! As you’re creating a haven this year, it’s a great opportunity to help others create havens, too. You can do this by sharing recipes, decorating ideas ……
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How to Create a Christ-Centered Christmas
This year, avoid a hectic holiday season and intentionally choose to create a Christ-centered Christmas. The Advent season is finally here! But have you felt the pull away from a focus on Christ? I’ve noticed it, from the wrapping paper in stores in October, to…
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8 Merry Meals to Make for a Christmas Party
Hosting company this Christmas? Don’t worry about what food to serve. Use these 8 different meal ideas to make for guests at Christmas! Bringing people together at Christmas is so fun. It’s a great time of year to step back from everyday routines and celebrate…
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10 Thoughtful, Affordable Hostess Gift Ideas
To bring a hostess gift? Or not to bring? That is the question. What once was a common practice has dropped in popularity. Whether people are more casual, concerned about a budget, forgetful, or unappreciative, hostess gifts have stopped being the norm. Even if they’re…
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10 Essential Items You Need Before You Host Guests
Whether you’ve invited guests over for a spur-of-the-moment gathering or have set a date and have been planning for weeks, these ten essential elements will help when it comes time to host guests.
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Let’s Practice Hospitality Together!
To help you experience how easy hospitality can be, let’s host a get-together over the next week! With these seven simple steps, you’ll be able to host company in a very low-key, non-threatening way.

